Vowels Laura M, Carnelley Katherine B, Francois-Walcott Rachel R R
University of Southampton, UK.
J Soc Pers Relat. 2022 Feb;39(2):155-178. doi: 10.1177/02654075211033341.
When romantic partners' personal goals conflict, this can negatively affect personal goal outcomes, such as progress. In a concurrent mixed methods study, we investigated whether goal conflict and negation of goal conflict were associated with goal outcomes (progress, confidence, motivation) and what strategies partners used during the COVID-19 pandemic to negotiate goal conflict. Survey participants ( = 200) completed a daily diary for a week and weekly longitudinal reports for a month and interview participants ( = 48) attended a semi-structured interview. Results showed that higher goal conflict was associated with lower goal outcomes, and successful negotiation of goal conflict was associated with better goal outcomes. Qualitative analyses identified three goal conflict negotiation strategies (compromise, integration, concession). Conversations focused on both practical and emotional needs and included respectful communication and space from conflict (timeout or avoidance). The mixed methods results suggest that goal conflict was low during the pandemic and participants were often able to negotiate goal conflict resulting in better goal outcomes.
当浪漫伴侣的个人目标发生冲突时,这可能会对个人目标的成果产生负面影响,比如进展。在一项同期混合方法研究中,我们调查了目标冲突以及目标冲突的消解是否与目标成果(进展、信心、动力)相关,以及伴侣在新冠疫情期间采用了哪些策略来协商目标冲突。调查参与者(n = 200)连续一周每天填写日记,并在一个月内每周提交纵向报告,访谈参与者(n = 48)参加了一次半结构化访谈。结果显示,较高的目标冲突与较低的目标成果相关,而成功协商目标冲突则与较好的目标成果相关。定性分析确定了三种目标冲突协商策略(妥协、整合、让步)。对话聚焦于实际需求和情感需求,包括相互尊重的沟通以及从冲突中抽离出来(暂停或回避)。混合方法研究结果表明,疫情期间目标冲突程度较低,参与者通常能够协商解决目标冲突,从而取得更好的目标成果。