Githuthu Florence Wamahiga, Gicheru Esther N
Institute of Social Transformation, Tangaza University College, Nairobi, Kenya.
372565The Co-operative University of Kenya, Nairobi, Kenya.
J Pastoral Care Counsel. 2022 Dec;76(4):285-293. doi: 10.1177/15423050221119100. Epub 2022 Sep 13.
Although forgiveness is hard work, it enables individuals who have gone through unfairness and harm outgrow the pain of resentment and hostility to a condition of wellness and health. Still, it is possible that authentic forgiveness, regardless of significant violations may, as a matter of choice occur when the injured have hitherto achieved proficiency with the forgiveness praxis by practicing consistently. This manuscript suggests a brief dispositional forgiveness praxis that permits individuals to achieve experience in forgiving trivial faults on a consistent basis. Even though other forgiveness practices are in existence, this praxis is distinctive in that it draws from a philosophically and scientifically firm appreciation of the forgiveness procedures and is supposed to build up ones' capacity to forgive in the circumstances of more difficult wounding and unfairness that may occur ahead. Individual persons engage in this praxis by meditating upon smaller instances of wrongdoing from their everyday life and wade through six steps, each informed by inquiry in forgiveness counseling and self-understanding; to move from anger to empathy. A case study is provided to demonstrate one personal experience in engaging in one of consistent forgiveness praxis in the repercussions of a small wrongdoing.
尽管宽恕是一项艰难的工作,但它能让经历过不公和伤害的人摆脱怨恨和敌意的痛苦,走向健康的状态。然而,真正的宽恕,无论违规行为多么严重,都有可能在受害者通过持续练习宽恕实践而熟练掌握之后,作为一种选择而出现。本文提出了一种简短的性格宽恕实践,它允许个人在持续的基础上,在宽恕小过错方面获得经验。尽管存在其他宽恕实践,但这种实践的独特之处在于,它源于对宽恕过程在哲学和科学上的坚定理解,并且应该在未来可能出现的更严重的伤害和不公情况下,增强个人的宽恕能力。个人通过思考日常生活中较小的不当行为实例来参与这种实践,并经历六个步骤,每个步骤都基于宽恕咨询和自我理解的探究;从愤怒走向同理心。提供了一个案例研究,以展示一个人在一件小过错的后果中参与持续宽恕实践之一的个人经历。