Jonason Peter K, White Kaitlyn P, Lowder Abigail H, Al-Shawaf Laith
Department of General Psychology, University of Padua, Padua, Italy.
Institute of Psychology, University of Cardinal Stefan Wyszyński, Warszawa, Poland.
Front Psychol. 2022 Sep 23;13:1019272. doi: 10.3389/fpsyg.2022.1019272. eCollection 2022.
In this study, we replicated what is known about the relative importance of dealbreakers (i.e., traits avoided) and dealmakers (i.e., traits sought) in romantic and sexual relationships and extended it to an examination of self-reports of mate value, self-esteem, and loneliness. In two experiments ( = 306; = 304) we manipulated the information people were told about potential partners and asked them about their intentions to have sex again with or go on a second date with opposite sex targets. People were less interested in partners after learning dealbreakers, effects which operated more strongly in the long-term than short-term context, but similarly in men and women. People who reported less self-esteem or more loneliness were more receptive to people with dealbreakers. People who thought they had more mate value, more self-esteem, or less loneliness were more receptive to dealmakers. Results are discussed using sociometer, prospect, and sexual strategies theories.
在本研究中，我们重复了关于恋爱关系和性关系中导致关系破裂的因素（即应避免的特质）和促成关系的因素（即所追求的特质）的相对重要性的已知内容，并将其扩展到对伴侣价值、自尊和孤独感的自我报告的考察。在两项实验（实验1：N = 306；实验2：N = 304）中，我们操纵了人们被告知的关于潜在伴侣的信息，并询问他们再次与异性目标发生性行为或进行第二次约会的意愿。在了解到导致关系破裂的因素后，人们对伴侣的兴趣降低，这种影响在长期情境中比短期情境中更强烈，但在男性和女性中类似。自尊较低或孤独感较强的人更容易接受有导致关系破裂因素的人。认为自己有更高伴侣价值、更高自尊或更低孤独感的人更容易接受促成关系的因素。我们使用社会计量理论、前景理论和性策略理论对结果进行了讨论。
