Kirkpatrick M
Department of Psychiatry, University of California, Los Angeles.
J Homosex. 1987;14(1-2):201-11. doi: 10.1300/J082v14n01_15.
Recent surveys of lesbians have revealed that one-third have been heterosexually married, and one-half of these have had children. Studies comparing lesbian mothers and their children with divorced heterosexual mothers and their children provide data of value to clinicians preparing to evaluate or treat members of this population. Studies show similarities between the two groups in marital history, pregnancy history, child-rearing attitudes, and lifestyle. Motherhood, not sexual orientation, is the most salient factor in both group's identity. Lesbian mothers had more congenial relations with ex-spouses and included men more regularly in their children's lives. Coupled lesbians had greater economic and emotional resources and provided children with a richer family life than did mothers of either group living alone with children. No difference in frequency not type of psychological problem was found in the children. Children benefited from group discussions to relieve anxiety about changes in their lives and in their mothers' sexual orientation.
近期对女同性恋者的调查显示,三分之一的人曾有过异性婚姻,其中一半育有子女。将女同性恋母亲及其子女与离异异性恋母亲及其子女进行比较的研究,为准备评估或治疗这一群体成员的临床医生提供了有价值的数据。研究表明,两组在婚姻史、怀孕史、育儿态度和生活方式方面存在相似之处。母亲身份而非性取向,是两组群体身份中最显著的因素。女同性恋母亲与前配偶的关系更为融洽,并且让男性更频繁地参与到孩子的生活中。与独自抚养孩子的任何一组母亲相比,伴侣关系中的女同性恋者拥有更多的经济和情感资源,能为孩子提供更丰富的家庭生活。在孩子中未发现心理问题的频率和类型存在差异。孩子们从小组讨论中受益,缓解了对自身生活及母亲性取向变化的焦虑。