Iwai Tatiana, de França Carvalho João Vinícius, Islam Gazi
Insper Institute of Education and Research, São Paulo, Brazil.
University of São Paulo - FEA/USP, São Paulo, Brazil.
Br J Soc Psychol. 2023 Jul;62(3):1486-1505. doi: 10.1111/bjso.12644. Epub 2023 Mar 15.
Comprehensive apologies are effective strategies to solve interpersonal conflict and promote reconciliation. However, transgressors tend to avoid providing comprehensive apologies because it is more threatening to do so. As a result, transgressors usually offer perfunctory apologies and hinder their own chances of being forgiven. Given the importance of promoting high-quality apologies, we investigate the role of moral identity in increasing apology comprehensiveness. Across three studies using a combination of experimental and correlational designs with autobiographical recall paradigm, we demonstrate that transgressors high in moral identity feel guiltier after committing a transgression. As a result, they offer more comprehensive apologies. Moreover, the effects of guilt on transgressors' apologizing are conditional on the perceived apology effectiveness. Guilt is particularly important to boost apology quality when perceived apology effectiveness is low. In such cases, guilt leads transgressors to make more reparative efforts towards reconciliation despite the low possibility of apology's acceptance.
全面道歉是解决人际冲突和促进和解的有效策略。然而,犯错者往往会避免做出全面道歉,因为这样做更具威胁性。因此,犯错者通常只是敷衍道歉,从而阻碍了自己获得原谅的机会。鉴于促进高质量道歉的重要性,我们研究了道德认同在提高道歉全面性方面的作用。通过三项结合了实验设计、相关设计以及自传回忆范式的研究,我们证明,道德认同高的犯错者在犯错后会感到更内疚。因此,他们会做出更全面的道歉。此外,内疚对犯错者道歉行为的影响取决于对道歉有效性的认知。当认为道歉有效性较低时,内疚对于提高道歉质量尤为重要。在这种情况下,尽管道歉被接受的可能性很低,内疚仍会促使犯错者为和解做出更多修复性努力。