Stem cells exhibit prominent clusters controlling the transcription of genes into RNA. These clusters form by a phase-separation mechanism, and their size and shape are controlled via an amphiphilic effect of transcribed genes. Here, we construct amphiphile-nanomotifs purely from DNA, and we achieve similar size and shape control for phase-separated droplets formed from fully synthetic, self-interacting DNA-nanomotifs. Increasing amphiphile concentrations induce rounding of droplets, prevent droplet fusion, and, at high concentrations, cause full dispersal of droplets. Super-resolution microscopy data obtained from zebrafish embryo stem cells reveal a comparable transition for transcriptional clusters with increasing transcription levels. Brownian dynamics and lattice simulations further confirm that the addition of amphiphilic particles is sufficient to explain the observed changes in shape and size. Our work reproduces key aspects of transcriptional cluster formation in biological cells using relatively simple DNA sequence-programmable nanostructures, opening novel ways to control the mesoscopic organization of synthetic nanomaterials.