Boker Gonen Tom, Bachner Yaacov G, Slonim-Nevo Vered
M.A Program in Gerontology, School of Public Health, Ben-Gurion University of the Negev, Beersheba 8410501, Israel.
The Charlotte B. and Jack J. Spitzer Department of Social Work, Ben-Gurion University of the Negev, Beersheba 8410501, Israel.
Behav Sci (Basel). 2024 May 15;14(5):418. doi: 10.3390/bs14050418.
Older women without children, like all older adults, evaluate their lives and face a conflict between despair and ego integrity as proposed by Erikson's theory of development. Their uniqueness lies in their deviation from the societal norm of parenthood prevalent in pro-natalist societies such as Israel. This study aims to explore how older childless women evaluate their lives. Using a qualitative approach, 20 semi-structured, in-depth interviews were conducted with women over 60 years of age who do not have children. Three main themes emerged from the participants' responses: their experiences as women without children in a pro-natalist society, the significance of freedom in their lives, and their life experiences from conflicting perspectives-an internal and external locus of control. The study's findings demonstrate that older childless women adeptly utilize different perspectives across various aspects of their lives, contributing to ego integrity, contrary to the prevailing societal notion that in the absence of children, women are damaged and lack identity. It is conceivable that other segments of the older adult population, diverging from mainstream societal norms, may similarly leverage these different perspectives to uphold their ego.
与所有老年人一样,没有子女的老年女性会根据埃里克森的发展理论来评估自己的生活,并面临绝望与自我完整之间的冲突。她们的独特之处在于,她们背离了以色列等生育主义社会中普遍存在的为人父母的社会规范。本研究旨在探讨没有子女的老年女性如何评估自己的生活。采用定性研究方法,对60岁以上无子女的女性进行了20次半结构化深度访谈。参与者的回答中出现了三个主要主题:她们在生育主义社会中作为无子女女性的经历、自由在她们生活中的重要性,以及她们从相互冲突的视角——内控和外控——所获得的生活体验。该研究的结果表明,没有子女的老年女性在生活的各个方面都巧妙地运用了不同的视角,这有助于她们实现自我完整,这与社会普遍观念相反,即认为没有子女的女性会受到伤害且缺乏身份认同。可以想象,其他与主流社会规范不同的老年人群体,可能同样会利用这些不同的视角来维护自己的自我。