Lincoln L M
Matern Child Nurs J. 1984 Summer;13(2):103-12.
Empirical evidence supports the belief that fathers play a significant role in the development of children. The father is becoming a more visible participant in physical care (feeding, diapering, and bathing) and the emotional life of the infant. Father-infant interactions have resulted in early formation of attachment to the father, but later than with the mother. Separation anxiety is reduced if the father-infant interactions have been qualitatively satisfactory to the infant. Father-infant interactions have a definite effect on the infant's progression through the separation-individuation process as described by Mahler and Abelin. The father's behavior toward the infant, particularly during the practicing subphase, enhances ego autonomy, differentiation, and individuation. According to Abelin, completion of the separation-individuation process may be impossible for the mother and the child if the father does not interact with the child. In view of this deduction, the writer concludes that special effort should be made by child and health care workers to encourage fathers' involvement with their very young children. Also, further investigation is needed in order to identify specific father-infant interactions that might facilitate the separation-individuation process.
实证证据支持这样一种观点,即父亲在孩子的成长过程中起着重要作用。父亲在婴儿的身体护理(喂食、换尿布和洗澡)以及情感生活中越来越成为一个可见的参与者。父子互动导致婴儿早期对父亲形成依恋,但比与母亲形成依恋的时间要晚。如果父子互动在质量上令婴儿满意,分离焦虑就会减轻。父子互动对婴儿按照玛勒和阿贝林所描述的分离-个体化过程的进展有明确的影响。父亲对婴儿的行为,特别是在实践子阶段,会增强自我自主性、分化和个体化。根据阿贝林的观点,如果父亲不与孩子互动,母亲和孩子可能无法完成分离-个体化过程。鉴于这一推论,作者得出结论,儿童和医护人员应做出特别努力,鼓励父亲参与照顾年幼的孩子。此外,还需要进一步调查,以确定可能促进分离-个体化过程的具体父子互动。