Bürgin D, von Klitzing K
Kinder- und jugendpsychiatrische Universitätsklinik und -poliklinik Basel.
Ther Umsch. 1994 May;51(5):345-53.
Adolescence is a phase of human development which is marked by a high vulnerability due to the ongoing psycho-physiological transformations. The regulation of the self-esteem is especially in danger in youngsters who went into adolescence with a marked burden of conflicts or who lived in families with disturbed intrafamilial dynamics. To be present as a partner and not to find the solutions for the adolescents' conflicts, to accept their questioning of what is established and to recognize their movements of reconciliation are the quite complex demands put on to the world of the adults. Adolescents urge us to a review of our own adolescence, to a balancing of hate and love, openness and rigidity, and to dialectic movements between disintegration and reintegration as well as between the generations. Any help, be it on the physical, the social or the psychic level, should be directed toward a restitution of the intrapsychic, intrafamilial or intergenerational balance; sociocultural factors have also always to be respected. The helpers--especially in a culture with rapid change--are often confronted with their own adolescence, which took place a generation before and mostly under totally different conditions.
青春期是人类发展的一个阶段,由于持续的心理生理转变,其特点是高度脆弱。自尊的调节在进入青春期时带着明显冲突负担或生活在家庭内部动态紊乱家庭中的青少年中尤其危险。作为伙伴陪伴在旁,而不是为青少年的冲突寻找解决方案,接受他们对既定事物的质疑,并认可他们的和解举动,这些是对成年人世界提出的相当复杂的要求。青少年促使我们回顾自己的青春期,平衡恨与爱、开放与僵化,以及在解体与重新整合之间以及代际之间的辩证运动。任何帮助,无论是在身体、社会还是心理层面,都应旨在恢复心理内部、家庭内部或代际之间的平衡;社会文化因素也始终必须得到尊重。帮助者——尤其是在快速变化的文化中——常常会面对自己一代人之前、大多在完全不同条件下经历的青春期。