Parental separation: effects on children; implications for services.

It is commonly assumed that the children of separated or divorced parents are disadvantaged financially and in terms of social development. A small-scale study was designed involving 14 volunteer parents who were separated from their spouses/partners and their 28 children, ranging in age from 5 to 12 years. Structured interviews examined the families' attitudes and feelings about the separation, the mental health of the parents, the emotional and behavioural reactions of the children, and the families' use of services. The results suggested that over 60% of the girls showed internalizing, and over 60% of the boys displayed externalizing behavioural difficulties. About 40% of the children suffered psychosomatic disorders. Nearly 75% of the parents suffered depression before and after separation. Depression, itself, may act to exacerbate children's emotional and behavioural difficulties. Although all the parents had received medication for their depression, few of the children had received any help for their difficulties. The urgent need for services to help such children is discussed.