Kamins M L, Dweck C S
Department of Psychology, Columbia University, New York, New York 10027, USA.
Dev Psychol. 1999 May;35(3):835-47. doi: 10.1037//0012-1649.35.3.835.
Conventional wisdom suggests that praising a child as a whole or praising his or her traits is beneficial. Two studies tested the hypothesis that both criticism and praise that conveyed person or trait judgments could send a message of contingent worth and undermine subsequent coping. In Study 1, 67 children (ages 5-6 years) role-played tasks involving a setback and received 1 of 3 forms of criticism after each task: person, outcome, or process criticism. In Study 2, 64 children role-played successful tasks and received either person, outcome, or process praise. In both studies, self-assessments, affect, and persistence were measured on a subsequent task involving a setback. Results indicated that children displayed significantly more "helpless" responses (including self-blame) on all dependent measures after person criticism or praise than after process criticism or praise. Thus person feedback, even when positive, can create vulnerability and a sense of contingent self-worth.
传统观念认为,整体表扬孩子或表扬其特质是有益的。两项研究检验了这样一个假设,即传达个人或特质判断的批评和表扬都可能传递一种有条件价值的信息,并破坏随后的应对能力。在研究1中,67名5至6岁的儿童对涉及挫折的任务进行角色扮演,每个任务后接受三种批评形式之一:针对个人、针对结果或针对过程的批评。在研究2中,64名儿童对成功的任务进行角色扮演,并接受针对个人、针对结果或针对过程的表扬。在两项研究中,对随后涉及挫折的任务进行自我评估、情感和坚持性测量。结果表明,与接受针对过程的批评或表扬相比,儿童在接受针对个人的批评或表扬后,在所有相关测量指标上表现出明显更多的“无助”反应(包括自责)。因此,即使是积极的针对个人的反馈,也会造成脆弱性和有条件的自我价值感。