Ventegodt Søren, Andersen Niels Jørgen, Kromann Maximilian, Merrick Joav
The quality of Life Research Center, Copenhagen, Denmark.
ScientificWorldJournal. 2003 Dec 1;3:1176-85. doi: 10.1100/tsw.2003.110.
The human being is a complex matter and many believe that just trying to understand life and what it means to be human is a futile undertaking. We believe that we have to try to understand life and get a grip on the many faces of life, because it can be of great value to us to learn to recognize the fundamental principles of how life is lived to the fullest. Learning to recognize the good and evil forces of life helps us to make use of the good ones. To be human is to balance between hundreds of extremes. Sometimes we have to avoid these extremes, but at other times it seems we should pursue them, to better understand life. With our roots in medicine, we believe in the importance of love for better health. The secret of the heart is when reason and feelings meet and we become whole. Where reason is balanced perfectly by feelings and where mind and body come together in perfect unity, a whole new quality emerges, a quality that is neither feeling nor reason, but something deeper and more complete. In this paper, we outline only enough biology to clarify what the fundamental inner conflicts are about. The insight into these conflicts gives us the key to a great deal of the problems of life. To imagine pleasures greater than sensual pleasures seems impossible to most people. What could such a joy possibly be? But somewhere deep in life exists the finest sweetness, the greatest quality in life, the pure joy of being alive that emerges when we are fully present and life is in balance. This deep joy of life is what we call experiencing the meaning of life.
人类是一个复杂的存在,许多人认为仅仅试图理解生命以及作为人类意味着什么是一项徒劳的事业。我们相信我们必须努力去理解生命,并把握生命的诸多面貌,因为学会认识如何最充分地生活的基本原则对我们可能具有巨大价值。学会认识生命中的善恶力量有助于我们利用善的力量。作为人类就是要在数百种极端之间保持平衡。有时我们必须避免这些极端,但在其他时候,我们似乎应该追求它们,以便更好地理解生命。基于我们的医学根源,我们相信爱对于健康的重要性。心灵的秘密在于理性与情感相遇之时,我们变得完整。在理性被情感完美平衡、身心完美统一之处,一种全新的特质出现了,这种特质既非情感也非理性,而是更深层次、更完整的东西。在本文中,我们仅概述足够的生物学知识以阐明基本的内在冲突是什么。对这些冲突的洞察为我们解决许多生活问题提供了关键。对大多数人来说,想象比感官愉悦更高级的快乐似乎是不可能的。这样的快乐可能是什么呢?但在生命深处的某个地方存在着最美好的甜蜜、生命中最伟大的特质、当我们全然在场且生命处于平衡状态时出现的活着的纯粹喜悦。这种生命的深层喜悦就是我们所说的体验生命的意义。