Davis Eden M, Fingerman Karen L
Department of Human Development and Family Sciences, University of Texas at Austin.
J Gerontol B Psychol Sci Soc Sci. 2016 Nov;71(6):959-967. doi: 10.1093/geronb/gbv042. Epub 2015 Jul 26.
Older adults are utilizing online dating websites in increasing numbers. Adults of different ages may share motivations for companionship and affection, but dating profiles may reveal differences in adults' goals. Theories addressing age-related changes in motivation suggest that younger adults are likely to emphasize themselves, achievements, attractiveness, and sexuality. Older adults are likely to present themselves positively and emphasize their existing relationships and health.
We collected 4,000 dating profiles from two popular websites to examine age differences in self-presentations. We used stratified sampling to obtain a sample equally divided by gender, aged 18-95 years. We identified 12 themes in the profiles using Linguistic Inquiry and Word Count software (Pennebaker, Booth, & Francis, 2007).
Regression analyses revealed that older adults were more likely to use first-person plural pronouns (e.g., we, our) and words associated with health and positive emotions. Younger adults were more likely to use first-person singular pronouns (e.g., I, my) and words associated with work and achievement.
Findings suggest that younger adults enhance the "self" when seeking romantic partnership. In contrast, older adults are more positive in their profiles and focus more on connectedness and relationships to others.
越来越多的老年人开始使用在线约会网站。不同年龄段的成年人在寻求陪伴和情感方面可能有共同的动机,但约会资料可能会揭示他们目标上的差异。关于动机方面与年龄相关变化的理论表明,年轻人可能会强调自己、成就、吸引力和性取向。老年人则可能积极展现自己,并强调他们现有的人际关系和健康状况。
我们从两个热门网站收集了4000份约会资料,以研究自我展示方面的年龄差异。我们采用分层抽样的方法,获得了一个按性别平均划分、年龄在18至95岁之间的样本。我们使用语言查询与字数统计软件(彭尼贝克、布斯和弗朗西斯,2007年)在资料中识别出12个主题。
回归分析显示,老年人更有可能使用第一人称复数代词(如我们、我们的)以及与健康和积极情绪相关的词汇。年轻人则更有可能使用第一人称单数代词(如我、我的)以及与工作和成就相关的词汇。
研究结果表明,年轻人在寻求浪漫伴侣时会强化“自我”。相比之下,老年人在他们的资料中表现得更为积极,并且更关注与他人的联系和关系。