Kim Kyubo
School of Theology, The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, 2825 Lexington Rd., Louisville, KY, 40280, USA.
J Relig Health. 2017 Feb;56(1):355-369. doi: 10.1007/s10943-016-0294-8.
Soul caregivers often hesitate to be vulnerable in their pastoral practices. Jesus, however, embraced his vulnerabilities as a human to redeem humanity even though he was the Son of God. This paper first explores the dynamics of shame and power that make soul caregivers reluctant to accept their vulnerabilities and then describes the contributions of sharing caregiver's vulnerabilities in a soul care practice. This article argues that being vulnerable allows a soul caregiver to imitate Jesus by sharing in the client's common humanity, initiating an authentic relationship between the client and the soul caregiver; it is also a practice of humility, inviting God's cure in soul care. This study proposes the necessity of embracing vulnerability in soul care ministry, instead of hiding it.
心灵关怀者在其牧养实践中常常不愿暴露自己的脆弱。然而,耶稣虽身为上帝之子,却甘愿以人的脆弱来救赎人类。本文首先探讨了羞耻与权力的动态关系,正是这种关系使心灵关怀者不愿接受自身的脆弱,接着描述了在心灵关怀实践中分享关怀者脆弱所带来的益处。本文认为,暴露脆弱能让心灵关怀者通过与来访者分享共同的人性来效法耶稣,从而在来访者与心灵关怀者之间建立起真实的关系;这也是一种谦卑的实践,能在心灵关怀中祈求上帝的医治。本研究提出,在心灵关怀事工中接纳脆弱而非隐藏它是必要的。