1 Purdue University, West Lafayette, IN, USA.
2 Singapore Management University, Singapore.
Pers Soc Psychol Bull. 2018 Aug;44(8):1242-1257. doi: 10.1177/0146167218764668. Epub 2018 Apr 11.
The concept of being ready for a relationship is pervasive in popular culture, but theoretical and empirical research on readiness is lacking. We offer a conceptualization of commitment readiness and provide some of the first empirical work examining readiness among single individuals-specifically how this construct shapes various aspects of relationship formation. Using data from five independent samples of individuals not involved in romantic relationships, we first establish that commitment readiness is associated with more interest in developing a close romantic relationship (Studies 1a, 1b, 2) and with active pursuit of relationship initiation (Study 2). We then test whether readiness among single individuals longitudinally predicts both the likelihood of later entering a relationship and, ultimately, how committed individuals are to a future relationship (Studies 3a, 3b, 3c). Implications of commitment readiness specifically, and perceived personal timing more generally, for the social psychology of relationships are discussed.
关系准备的概念在流行文化中普遍存在,但关于准备的理论和实证研究却很缺乏。我们提出了承诺准备的概念,并提供了一些关于单身个体准备情况的首批实证研究,具体说明了这一结构如何影响关系形成的各个方面。我们使用了来自五个不涉及浪漫关系的个体的独立样本的数据,首先确定承诺准备与发展亲密浪漫关系的兴趣更相关(研究 1a、1b、2),并与积极寻求关系建立相关(研究 2)。然后,我们检验了单身个体的准备情况是否会在纵向预测他们以后进入关系的可能性,以及最终他们对未来关系的投入程度(研究 3a、3b、3c)。我们讨论了承诺准备的意义,特别是对关系社会心理学的意义,以及更普遍的个人时间感知的意义。