Lehmkuhl U, Born C J
Z Kinder Jugendpsychiatr. 1986;14(1):50-62.
As part of a research project on reactions in divorced families during the period immediately following separation, 61 mothers and 9 fathers with 158 children and youths were studied. The results reported in the present paper are based on the responses of 44 children and their parents on the subject of "father." The results indicate that fathers lose their importance for their children by disappearing from the children's daily life. The atmosphere in the family was described in a similar way by all persons concerned. Although the children wanted their parents to live together again, their fear of renewed quarreling caused them to give preference to separation. The parents living apart responded to the items in the categories "evaluation of a relationship" and "the ideal partner for a relationship" about the same as did those living together. In a questionnaire on coping with stress, fathers living apart from their wives and children projected the image of strong, independent men capable of mastering their problems alone with no need for outside help. This can be interpreted as an idealized image or as an assessment in terms of stereotyped roles.
作为一项关于分居后即时阶段离异家庭反应的研究项目的一部分,对61位母亲、9位父亲以及158名儿童和青少年进行了研究。本文所报告的结果基于44名儿童及其父母对“父亲”这一主题的回答。结果表明,父亲因从孩子的日常生活中消失而对孩子失去了重要性。所有相关人员对家庭氛围的描述都很相似。尽管孩子们希望父母再次共同生活,但他们对再次争吵的恐惧使他们更倾向于分居。分居的父母对“关系评价”和“关系中的理想伴侣”类别的项目回答与共同生活的父母大致相同。在一份关于应对压力的问卷中,与妻子和孩子分居的父亲们展现出强大、独立的男性形象,他们能够独自解决问题,无需外界帮助。这可以被解释为一种理想化的形象,或者是基于刻板角色的一种评价。