Human Sexuality Department, California Institute of Integral Studies, 1453 Mission Street, San Francisco, CA, 94103, USA.
Arch Sex Behav. 2024 May;53(5):1713-1730. doi: 10.1007/s10508-024-02857-x. Epub 2024 Apr 8.
A recent review of cultural and academic discourse presented evidence that some people experience attraction to two (or more) people in a preexisting relationship. This phenomenon, symbiosexuality, is understudied in the field of sexuality. Lack of recognition and validation for this attraction, including in the polyamorous community, may be negatively impacting those who experience symbiosexual attraction. I conducted an integrated mixed-methods analysis of secondary data from the 2023 The Pleasure Study to learn more about symbiosexual attraction. Findings from this study support the hypothesis that people experience symbiosexual attraction, which they describe as an attraction to the energy, multidimensionality, and power shared between people in relationships. Further, findings from this study indicate that a diverse group of people experience symbiosexual attraction and, while unanticipated, symbiosexual attraction can be a strong, frequent, and/or pervasive experience. These findings push the boundaries of the concepts of desire and sexual orientation in sexuality studies and challenge the ongoing invisibility and invalidation of and stigma and discrimination against such attractions, within both the polyamorous community and our broader mononormative culture.
最近对文化和学术话语的回顾提供了证据,表明有些人在预先存在的关系中对两个人(或更多人)有吸引力。这种现象,共生性吸引力,在性领域的研究中还很少见。这种吸引力缺乏认可和验证,包括在多伴侣关系社区中,可能会对那些有共生性吸引力的人产生负面影响。我对 2023 年《快感研究》中的二次数据进行了综合混合方法分析,以了解更多关于共生性吸引力的信息。这项研究的结果支持了这样一种假设,即人们会经历共生性吸引力,他们将这种吸引力描述为对关系中两个人之间的能量、多维性和力量的吸引力。此外,这项研究的结果表明,一群不同的人会经历共生性吸引力,而且,尽管出乎意料,但共生性吸引力可能是一种强烈、频繁和/或普遍的体验。这些发现挑战了性研究中欲望和性取向概念的界限,并挑战了对这种吸引力的持续忽视、无效、污名化和歧视,无论是在多伴侣关系社区还是在我们更广泛的单一规范文化中。