Assor Avi, Cohen Rinat, Grolnick Wendy, Smetana Judith G, Sher-Censor Efrat, Itshaki Noam
Educational Psychology program, School of Education, Ben-Gurion University, Beersheba, Israel.
School of Education, Achva Academic College, Yinon, Israel.
J Youth Adolesc. 2025 Jul 16. doi: 10.1007/s10964-025-02196-7.
When parents first learn about their adolescent's problem behaviors, they may warn their teen that further involvement in problem behaviors will lead to increased restraints, surveillance, or resource withdrawal. However, research has not investigated how adolescents experience and respond to such warnings. Drawing on research on the benefits of parents' demonstration of the merit of their values in their behavior (inherent value demonstration), this study examined the potential role of inherent value demonstration as a moderator of youth responses to warnings. Participants were 105 Israeli adolescents (Mage = 14.87 years, SD = 1.52, 57.1% female) who completed an individualized survey asking them to indicate which of 29 problem behaviors they had engaged in during the last month. The survey then selected the most serious problem behavior youth engaged in, and asked them to rate two parental reactions - warnings and perspective-taking - to the onset of this behavior, their experiences and responses following parents' reactions, problem behavior recurrence, and parents' general inclination to demonstrate their values in their behavior. As hypothesized, and with youth problem behavior characteristics and parents' perspective-taking controlled, youth were more likely to experience their parents' warnings as need-frustrating and respond defiantly when they perceived their parents as failing to demonstrate their values in their behavior. Additionally, inherent value demonstration was positively associated with perception of parents' reactions as need supporting and negatively related to perception of parents reactions as need thwarting and defiance. These findings suggest that parents' inherent value demonstration may function as a protective factor that enables youth to experience their parents' warnings less negatively.
当父母首次得知其青少年子女的问题行为时,他们可能会警告孩子,进一步参与问题行为将导致更多限制、监督或资源撤回。然而,研究尚未调查青少年如何体验并回应此类警告。借鉴关于父母在行为中展现其价值观优点(内在价值示范)的益处的研究,本研究考察了内在价值示范作为青少年对警告反应的调节因素的潜在作用。参与者为105名以色列青少年(年龄中位数 = 14.87岁,标准差 = 1.52,57.1%为女性),他们完成了一项个性化调查,被要求指出在过去一个月内参与的29种问题行为中的哪几种。调查随后选出青少年参与的最严重问题行为,并要求他们对父母针对该行为发生的两种反应——警告和换位思考——进行评分,以及父母反应后的自身经历和反应、问题行为复发情况,以及父母在行为中展现其价值观的总体倾向。正如所假设的那样,在控制了青少年问题行为特征和父母的换位思考后,当青少年认为父母未能在行为中展现其价值观时,他们更有可能觉得父母的警告令人沮丧,并做出违抗反应。此外,内在价值示范与将父母反应视为需求支持的认知呈正相关,与将父母反应视为需求阻碍和违抗的认知呈负相关。这些发现表明,父母的内在价值示范可能起到保护作用,使青少年对父母警告的负面体验减少。