Weil N H
Int J Psychoanal Psychother. 1984;10:75-89.
The significance of a visual dialogue between patient and therapist in assisting tension regulation for patients with severe narcissistic injury is proposed. Non-verbal interactions may unfold spontaneously and contribute to development of a "holding environment" in its broadest sense. There will be inevitably both countertransference and real elements in this bipersonal field. The development of a visual holding environment at a symbiotic level may be based on a counter-transference response by the therapist of an earlier need to "hold or be held." It has been suggested that it is difficult for the therapist to feel a "gleam in the eye" for patients who have missed early mirroring. Developmental stages of treatment involving active mutuality of eye contact, considered a "language of silence" beyond verbal interpretation, are suggested. These observations agree with Searles' paper that facial expressions form a bridge to personal relatedness.