DePaulo B M, Kashy D A, Kirkendol S E, Wyer M M, Epstein J A
Department of Psychology, University of Virginia, Charlottesville 22903, USA.
J Pers Soc Psychol. 1996 May;70(5):979-95.
In 2 diary studies of lying, 77 college students reported telling 2 lies a day, and 70 community members told 1. Participants told more self-centered lies than other-oriented lies, except in dyads involving only women, in which other-oriented lies were as common as self-centered ones. Participants told relatively more self-centered lies to men and relatively more other-oriented lies to women. Consistent with the view of lying as an everyday social interaction process, participants said that they did not regard their lies as serious and did not plan them much or worry about being caught. Still, social interactions in which lies were told were less pleasant and less intimate than those in which no lies were told.
在两项关于说谎的日记研究中,77名大学生报告称每天说谎2次,70名社区成员报告称每天说谎1次。参与者讲述的以自我为中心的谎言比为他人着想的谎言更多,但在仅涉及女性的二元组中除外,在这种情况下,为他人着想的谎言与以自我为中心的谎言一样常见。参与者对男性讲述的以自我为中心的谎言相对较多,对女性讲述的为他人着想的谎言相对较多。与将说谎视为日常社会互动过程的观点一致,参与者表示他们不认为自己的谎言很严重,也没有过多地策划这些谎言,也不担心被识破。然而,讲述谎言的社会互动比未讲述谎言的社会互动更不愉快、更不亲密。