Hopf H H
Abteilung für Medizinische Psychologie, Universität Ulm.
Prax Kinderpsychol Kinderpsychiatr. 1992 May-Jun;41(5):176-84.
Until now it had been observed that in their dreams girls concern themselves more with inter-human relationships, whereas boys concern themselves stronger with the outside world and aggressive striving. In this survey manifest dreams, as reported in psychotherapies, spontaneously remembered and taken down by the children and young people themselves, were examined with an index in which Balint's theories about oknophilia and philobatism were used. The question whether there are any differences of sex was checked there. One important result of this survey was that girls in fact dream more oknophile subjects, whereas boys dream more philobatic ones. As the philobatic attitude might be put down to an earlier trauma than the oknophile one, this result here above all corresponds with the hypothesis of the feminist psychoanalytics (Chodorow, Olivier), that boys axe dismissed from the symbiosis with their mothers too early. With that they get into a premature independence they are not up to. Girls on the other hand are rather overcharged narcissistically and their mothers hold on to them for too long.
到目前为止，人们观察到，在梦中女孩更多地关注人际关系，而男孩则更关注外部世界和进取奋斗。在这项调查中，对心理治疗中报告的、由儿童和年轻人自己自发回忆并记录下来的显性梦境，使用了一个指数进行检验，该指数采用了巴林特关于恋巢癖和恋家癖的理论。在那里检查了是否存在性别差异的问题。这项调查的一个重要结果是，事实上女孩梦见更多恋巢癖主题，而男孩梦见更多恋家癖主题。由于恋家癖态度可能比恋巢癖态度归因于更早的创伤，上述结果首先与女权主义精神分析学（乔多罗、奥利维耶）的假设相符，即男孩过早地与母亲脱离共生关系。这样一来，他们过早地进入了自己无法胜任的独立状态。另一方面，女孩在自恋方面负担过重，而她们的母亲又与她们维系太久。
