Department of Psychology, Florida State University, Tallahassee, FL 32306-4301, USA.
J Pers Soc Psychol. 2013 Jun;104(6):995-1018. doi: 10.1037/a0032137. Epub 2013 Apr 15.
[Correction Notice: An Erratum for this article was reported in Vol 104(6) of Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (see record 2013-18890-002). The title of the article is incorrect.] Increasing interdependence in an intimate relationship requires engaging in behaviors that risk rejection, such as expressing affection and asking for support. Who takes such risks and who avoids them? Although several theoretical perspectives suggest that self-esteem plays a crucial role in shaping such behaviors, they can be used to make competing predictions regarding the direction of this effect. Six studies reconcile these contrasting predictions by demonstrating that the effects of self-esteem on behaviors that risk rejection to increase interdependence depend on relational self-construal-that is, the extent to which people define themselves by their close relationships. In Studies 1 and 2, participants were given the opportunity to disclose negative personal information (Study 1) and feelings of intimacy (Study 2) to their dating partners. In Study 3, married couples reported the extent to which they confided in one another. In Study 4, we manipulated self-esteem and relational self-construal, and participants reported their willingness to engage in behaviors that increase interdependence. In Studies 5 and 6, we manipulated the salience of interpersonal risk, and participants reported their willingness to engage in behaviors that risk rejection to increase interdependence. In all 6 studies, self-esteem was positively associated with behaviors that can increase interdependence among people low in relational self-construal but negatively associated with those behaviors among people high in relational self-construal. Accordingly, theoretical descriptions of the role of self-esteem in relationships will be most complete to the extent that they consider the degree to which people define themselves by their close relationships.
[勘误通知:本文的勘误报告已在《人格与社会心理学杂志》第 104 卷第 6 期(参见记录 2013-18890-002)中报道。文章的标题不正确。] 在亲密关系中增加相互依赖需要人们采取冒险被拒绝的行为,例如表达感情和寻求支持。谁会冒这样的风险,谁又会避免这样做?尽管有几个理论观点表明,自尊在塑造这些行为方面起着至关重要的作用,但它们可以用来对这种效应的方向做出相互竞争的预测。六项研究通过证明自尊对增加相互依赖而冒险拒绝的行为的影响取决于关系自我建构,即人们通过亲密关系来定义自己的程度,从而调和了这些相互矛盾的预测。在研究 1 和 2 中,参与者有机会向他们的约会伴侣透露负面的个人信息(研究 1)和亲密感(研究 2)。在研究 3 中,已婚夫妇报告了他们彼此之间相互信任的程度。在研究 4 中,我们操纵了自尊和关系自我建构,参与者报告了他们愿意参与增加相互依赖的行为。在研究 5 和 6 中,我们操纵了人际风险的凸显性,参与者报告了他们愿意冒险拒绝以增加相互依赖的行为。在所有 6 项研究中,在关系自我建构较低的人群中,自尊与可以增加人际相互依赖的行为呈正相关,而在关系自我建构较高的人群中,自尊与这些行为呈负相关。因此,在考虑到人们通过亲密关系来定义自己的程度的情况下,对自尊在人际关系中的作用的理论描述将是最完整的。