Delight E, Goodall J
Association for Spina Bifida and Hydrocephalus, London.
BMJ. 1988 Nov 12;297(6658):1230-3. doi: 10.1136/bmj.297.6658.1230.
From 1971 to 1981, 98 babies born with meningomyelocoele at the North Staffordshire Hospital Centre's district maternity hospital, were thought not suitable for surgery. Sixty three survived for more than one week. Over the period the hospital's policy changed: initially all such babies were kept in hospital, but later parents were given the choice of taking their baby home for palliative and terminal care. In an attempt to determine parents' views on the care of their baby the parents of 44 of the babies who survived to one week were traced in 1985-6, five to 14 years later; 80 of them were asked how they felt about the lives and deaths of their babies. Eighteen babies had been taken home, and they had lived longer than the 26 who had been cared for in hospital. Parents whose baby had remained in hospital were sadder than those who had taken their baby home when they looked back at their experiences, and they also considered that their baby's life had been of poor quality. Most of those who had taken their baby home had a more positive view of their child's life. The figures suggest that the bereavement process after a baby's death is longer than has been thought, but despite residual sadness just over half of the parents interviewed thought that something positive had come out of their experience.
1971年至1981年间,北斯塔福德郡医院中心地区妇产医院出生的98名患有脊髓脊膜膨出的婴儿被认为不适合手术。其中63名存活超过一周。在此期间,医院的政策发生了变化:最初所有此类婴儿都留在医院,但后来父母可以选择带孩子回家接受姑息治疗和临终关怀。为了确定父母对其婴儿护理的看法,1985年至1986年,即五到十四年后,追踪了44名存活一周的婴儿的父母;其中80人被问及他们对自己孩子生死的感受。18名婴儿被带回家,他们的存活时间比在医院接受护理的26名婴儿更长。回顾自己的经历时,孩子留在医院的父母比带孩子回家的父母更悲伤,他们也认为自己孩子的生活质量很差。大多数带孩子回家的父母对孩子的生活有更积极的看法。这些数据表明,婴儿死亡后的丧亲过程比人们想象的要长,但尽管仍有悲伤情绪,超过一半接受采访的父母认为他们的经历有积极的一面。