Parenting and Family Support Centre, The University of Queensland, 13 Upland Road, St Lucia, Brisbane, QLD, 4072, Australia.
Oregon Research Institute, Eugene, OR, USA.
Clin Child Fam Psychol Rev. 2019 Mar;22(1):24-42. doi: 10.1007/s10567-019-00287-z.
An individual's capacity to self-regulate their cognitions, emotions and actions is an important life skill and emergent developmental competency for both children and parents. Individuals with better self-regulation achieve more positive life course outcomes and are less likely to develop significant mental health, social, and relationship problems. Parenting support programs that promote positive, nurturing parent-child relationships provide a unique multigenerational context to promote the self-regulatory capacity of both parents and children. Such programs provide a meaningful context and many opportunities for parents to enhance their self-regulation capacities, including skills such as goal setting, self-monitoring, self-evaluation, self-efficacy, personal agency, and thought and emotion regulation that, in turn, enable independent problem solving and responsive parenting. Parenting programs based on social learning theory, cognitive behavioral principles, and developmental theory typically include structured session activities and homework tasks that can be optimized to promote parental self-regulation. These include enhancing executive functions such as anticipating, planning ahead, following a plan, and problem solving, so that parents acquire greater cognitive flexibility, better impulse control, and are better able to generalize and apply learned parenting principles and skills beyond their immediate concerns to a broader range of child problems and challenging parenting and family situations. We illustrate how positive parenting principles and strategies can promote enhanced self-regulation, and discuss implications for research and practice.
个体自我调节认知、情绪和行为的能力是一项重要的生活技能,也是儿童和家长新兴的发展能力。自我调节能力较好的个体能够取得更积极的人生成果,并且不太可能出现严重的心理健康、社交和关系问题。促进积极、关爱的亲子关系的育儿支持计划为促进父母和子女的自我调节能力提供了独特的多代际环境。这些计划为父母提供了有意义的背景和许多机会来增强他们的自我调节能力,包括目标设定、自我监控、自我评估、自我效能、个人能动性以及思维和情绪调节等技能,这些技能反过来又使他们能够独立解决问题并做出响应式的育儿决策。基于社会学习理论、认知行为原则和发展理论的育儿计划通常包括结构化的课程活动和家庭作业任务,可以进行优化以促进父母的自我调节。这些措施包括增强执行功能,如预测、提前计划、遵循计划和解决问题,从而使父母获得更大的认知灵活性、更好的冲动控制能力,并能够更好地将所学的育儿原则和技能推广和应用于更广泛的儿童问题和具有挑战性的育儿及家庭情况,而不仅仅局限于他们当前的关注点。我们举例说明了积极的育儿原则和策略如何促进自我调节能力的提升,并讨论了其对研究和实践的影响。