Kriebel A, Tress W
Z Psychosom Med Psychoanal. 1987;33(3):276-93.
In this survey of literature on the subject, we discuss the question of whether or not and if so to what extent a mature, adult ability to love depends on relevant early experience, or whether it functions as a corrective to unfavorable emotional experience in early childhood. There is no compelling connection between certain disturbances of partner relations and concrete family circumstances in the first years of life. Such disturbances are regarded by traditional psychoanalysis as the result of an unresolved infantile conflict; however, since there is no psychoanalytical interaction theory for the description and explanation of interpersonal phenomena, recent discussions have drawn increasingly on a systematic approach. From a historical point of view, psychoanalytical discussions reflect essential changes in theories about the ability to love. More recent empirical studies point to a possible involvement of corrective and compensatory mechanisms for unfavorable early experiences of a medium degree of seriousness. Nevertheless, warm affection based on needs during the first years of life (at best from loving parents with a partner-oriented relationship) provides a basis for the adult's ability to love and form partnerships.
在本次关于该主题的文献综述中，我们探讨这样一个问题：成熟的成人爱的能力是否以及在何种程度上依赖于相关的早期经历，或者它是否起到纠正童年早期不良情感经历的作用。伴侣关系中的某些困扰与生命最初几年的具体家庭环境之间不存在必然联系。传统精神分析将此类困扰视为未解决的婴儿期冲突的结果；然而，由于没有用于描述和解释人际现象的精神分析互动理论，最近的讨论越来越多地采用系统方法。从历史角度看，精神分析讨论反映了关于爱的能力理论的本质变化。最近的实证研究指出，对于中等严重程度的早期不良经历，可能存在纠正和补偿机制。尽管如此，生命最初几年基于需求的温暖情感（最好来自具有伴侣导向关系的慈爱父母）为成年人爱的能力和建立伴侣关系提供了基础。
