Hershkovitz-Freudenthal Adi, Lavenda Osnat
School of Social Work, Ariel University, Ariel, Israel.
Front Psychol. 2024 Jul 26;15:1403955. doi: 10.3389/fpsyg.2024.1403955. eCollection 2024.
The most prevalent conceptualization of parenting of our time is intensive parenting which refers to parents' overinvolvement in children's lives, placing the child's needs before others' needs, including the needs of the parents themselves (i.e., Child-centrism). Intensive parenting is mostly attributed to mothers as they are still bearing the bulk responsibility for child rearing. Nevertheless, as the role of fathers changed in recent decades it is crucial to examine intensive parenting among fathers and understand whether factors that are associated with intensive mothering are associated with intensive fatherhood as well. The current study uses Belsky's Process of Parenting model to fill-in the gap.
Participants were 301 Israeli fathers of preschool children aged 22 to 50 years old (M=36.34, SD=5.01). They filled out online self-report questionnaires dealing with intensive parenting style, child temperament, social support, marital satisfaction, and parental self-efficacy.
The model explained 64% of paternal child-centrism. Fathers who reported having children with more difficult temperament, reported low social support, low marital satisfaction, and low self-efficacy, were more intensive in their parenting style.
The present findings are discussed in relation to previous findings regarding maternal child-centrism with an emphasis on their important implications for professionals working with families for the benefit of parents' and children's wellbeing.
我们这个时代最普遍的育儿观念是密集育儿,它指的是父母过度参与孩子的生活,将孩子的需求置于他人需求之前,包括父母自身的需求(即儿童中心主义)。密集育儿大多归因于母亲,因为她们仍然承担着育儿的主要责任。然而,近几十年来父亲的角色发生了变化,因此审视父亲的密集育儿情况并了解与密集育儿相关的因素是否也与父亲的密集育儿有关至关重要。本研究采用贝尔斯基的育儿过程模型来填补这一空白。
参与者为301名以色列学龄前儿童的父亲,年龄在22至50岁之间(M = 36.34,SD = 5.01)。他们填写了在线自我报告问卷,内容涉及密集育儿方式、孩子的气质、社会支持、婚姻满意度和父母自我效能感。
该模型解释了父亲儿童中心主义的64%。那些报告孩子气质较难、社会支持较低、婚姻满意度较低和自我效能感较低的父亲,其育儿方式更为密集。
本研究结果与之前关于母亲儿童中心主义的研究结果相关联进行了讨论,重点强调了这些结果对从事家庭工作的专业人员的重要意义,以促进父母和孩子的幸福。